Naan pizza

Last week our local grocery store did a demonstration with pizzas made using naan bread. Great idea! It was delicious and a perfect dinner for one.

Ingredients 

Olive oil

1/2 cup of BBQ chicken (I used leftovers)

1/4 cup of onion

5 grape tomatoes (cut in half)

2 tablespoons of cheese (we are obsessed with Dubliner)

1 tablespoon cilantro

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Brush bread with olive oil.

Decorate with onion, chicken, cheese and tomatoes.

Bake for about 8 minutes or until cheese is melted. 

Spread cilantro over top of pizza.

Splash with a little Franks Red Hot and enjoy! 

It's her party and I'll cry when it's over

Someone asked me the theme of my blog this weekend. I think it's safe to say tears. Someone in elementary school asked me why I was a cry baby... I guess it's seventh child syndrome but believe it or not it's something Alex says he loves about me. He loves that I am an emotional person and am moved by things and I truly love that he is an emotional and passionate man. Not that I see him cry often but the man has feelings and I love it!

Recap of the last few days...

Friday afternoon Jennifer and Carolina came over to help bake cupcakes and Grace's smash cake. I marveled at Jennifer's skills and knowledge over this cake baking! I forgot buttermilk needed for the cake and she had an idea to make it ourselves (with the help of Google). Brilliant I tell ya! Alex had a two hour commute home so we just spent the night working on getting the house ready for Grace's party followed by an early bedtime.

Saturday morning we went on a bike ride to a local restaurant called Cafe Red. We went with another family in the neighborhood that we've grown close with. It was an absolutely perfect start to our day! After breakfast the Franks came over. Jennifer helped me ice the cupcakes and Carolina played with Gracie. Alex and Gustavo went shooting at George Bush Park. Alex was so happy to go; he's been itching to go since we've moved here! In the afternoon we went to little Arden's birthday party. Arden is one of Grace's companions and is an absolute doll. Her party was absolutely gorgeous, every detail thought of and oh so country chic. After the party we came home and relaxed on our patio.

Sunday morning we went to church and had a shindig for Gracie. It was so much fun! Grace didn't love the smash cake despite my efforts of sneaking her scraps of the cake Saturday so maybe she would love it when it was her time to dig in Sunday. Everyone was so generous. thoughtful, and loving on Grace's special day. Alex and I couldn't help but be overwhelmed with the fact that we've been here just under three months and have some solid friendships established with positive influences in not only our lives but also Grace. Just another example of how God has provided. After everyone left we took a family nap, ate dinner, and hit the hay before nine.

 

Monday was an emotional day. Before bed Sunday, we watched videos of Grace as an infant. My goodness has she grown. It was hilarious to see how she could barely control her neck and now she can delicately pick things up with her little pinchers. In the morning we brought cupcakes to the childcare girls at the gym that Grace adores. We went on a bike ride and to the park later. For dinner, we met Alex at a Mexican restaurant with an enormous patio. Grace ordered her first kids meal and dessert. We got many sweet calls, texts, and facetime in which was so thoughtful. Our baby is officially a toddler, although, "as long as I'm living my baby you'll be."

Tuesday we went to Town and Country to meet Alex for lunch. We enjoyed the break in the day by seeing his sweet face and doing shopping. Of course I haven't quite learned to read the signs and Grace had a complete meltdown on the way home but live and learn my friends....live and learn. We had another low key night here getting Alex packed for his business trip.

Today we had Gracie's one year doctor appointment. Unfortunately, it was one of those days that reminded me of the things I miss about Chicago-land and I desperately miss my old pediatrician's office. Today was nuts. We had more forms to fill out once we got to the office (on top of the stack I had completed at home)... I feel like I'm signing my kid's life away! Alex came with since we knew G was getting four shots....sadly, he had to leave for the airport before they called us in and Alex didn't have a chance to even meet the doctor. Our appointment was at 10:10, we did not leave until just before noon. The doctor had NO idea I was a new patient, scoffed at my old pediatrician for telling me to give Grace everything but honey, and total processed our appointment. I felt SO rushed (I only saw the doctor for a total of 7 minutes) and the four shots was pretty traumatizing to poor Grace. Lorna has blood all over her after the finger prick. Rough morning.

Surprisingly, Grace was in great spirits the rest of the day. We went to whole foods and world market for shopping and lunch. This afternoon, a couple girlfriends and their kiddos came over for wine and visiting. It was lovely. Since they've gone, I've been having a pretty low key night getting a couple of projects done. Love to you all!

Gracie's entrance into the world

August 25, 2012

The best end  to the "couple stage." We enjoy a lazy morning sitting on the front porch reading. We decide to go mini putting in the afternoon. Go home to take a nap. I pause outside Gracie's room wondering when she will arrive...will she have a "Paladino" nose... will she have Alex's eyes? Nervous excitement to meet the little person inside me. We take a nap, get ready, head out to Heaven on Seven for voodoo chicken enchiladas. While enjoying my incredible dinner I feel a contraction and throw my fork. No more contractions. Enjoy the rest of dinner, grab gelato, and take a walk. Wow, my stomach feels weighted and heavy. Let's go home and rest. Go to bed, wake up after a terrible dream that I was pushing so hard in the stirrups that my feet start bleeding. Cuddle with Alex and pray. Pray for protection during labor. Prayed for the safety of my child. Prayed that God would give me sure fire signs that when I was in labor, I was in labor, none of this 24 hour stuff. God puts my mind to rest and I sleep until 7 a.m.

August 26, 2012

I wake up at 7 with light cramps. Are these contractions? Well, I'm awake now, might as well go eat some cereal (a pregnancy delight). Cramps are getting a little stronger. Feeling flutters. I suppose I should start timing these. Six minutes apart. I wake up Alex at 7:30 to help me time these. Cramp. Five minutes. Cramp. Call doctor. Doctor says to stay home as long as possible and keep timing. Four minutes. Shower, pack toiletries, start vacuuming. It's after 9:30 now, three minutes between cramps, Alex is getting nervous, need to leave now. Call hospital on the way there to let them know. Call parents to let them know we are having a baby today. Get to hospital and are waiting in triage room. Nurse checks to see if I'm dilated.... I cry. I'm either 3 or 9 cm dilated. Nurses can't get a hold of doctor. Terrible cramps. Intense. Beginning to feel like I need to push. Want to walk around but hooked up to a machine. Definitely in active labor. Alex is pacing and starting to complain to nurses. 10:30 Doctor arrives. Makes joke about if I'm ready to have a baby today. Alex jabs that he thought he was going to have to deliver our baby himself. I'm fully dilated. Doctor asks, "Lets talk about meds, do you want an epidural." I say that I think I can get this baby out without it (I told him to ask me only one time). Get moved to labor and delivery room.

I walk around for a couple of minutes but keep collapsing in pain. I start freaking out to Alex about if I should have gotten the epidural. He reassures me by telling me that this is going to be the most painful thing I'll ever experience. Thanks Alex. Tells me he just wants me to be okay and that if I want the meds, get them. I decide I need to push NOW and no meds are needed. 11:30 nurse comes in and doctor wants to break my water. (I started watching TLC's A Baby Story at 38 weeks pregnant....terrible idea...don't want my water broken for me). Doctor leaves. Start pushing a little and my water breaks. Feels hot and now I feel gross. Oh well. Start pushing. Continue pushing (for an hour) and the baby's head crowns. I scream, "I don't think I can do this." Everyone tells me I'm doing great and that I have to do this. Baby's head is out. Start saying, "Get her out, get her out." Keep pushing. 1:30 p.m. baby arrives. Alex cuts the cord. I ask if she's a girl (nothing about her room was gender neutral). They place her warm body on me. I'm in shock yet so in love. She's precious. She's perfect. She's ours.

Our precious blessing gave us a million scares in our first year as parents. Thankfully, through the worry, we have prayer and guidance from the Lord. The child-growing, child-raising process is teaching us more each day to rely on Him. Grace Marie is our precious gift and we're so blessed that God has given her to us. Happy birthday to our baby Grace.

Catching up

This week was a much slower paced week. It felt like we have been on "go mode" lately and haven't had time to get caught up on things. Luckily, this week has helped me get back on top of things....with the help of coffee ;)

Monday night we went on a family bike ride after dinner. We took our bikes to a path we hadn't ventured on before. It was gorgeous! We rode around a little lake and then to McDonald's for dipped cones.

Tuesday we went to the pool for a couple hours with a friend in the neighborhood, Sarah. Her little girl, Ryan, is about 3 months older than Grace and is so smart! We had a great time enjoying a little picnic lunch and watching the kiddos splash in the water. Tuesday night we went to the Franks for an adorable pizza party. We all brought a few toppings, Jennifer made the crust, and we rolled the dough and decorated our own pizzas upon arrival. It was super fun and of course Jennifer made it look effortless.

Wednesday Grace and I spent time playing and getting things done around the house. In the afternoon we picked up Sarah and Ryan and went to La Centera. We went to Bonefish Grill for their happy hour and strolled around the shopping center. Radio Disney showed up and put on an adorable little show for the kiddies.

Thursday we went to the gym in the morning where Grace had a blowout. Poor baby. After changing her pants into polka dot pajama shorts (she was wearing a striped shirt), I finished my workout and we headed on our way. We had to stop at hobby lobby on our way home. Grace normally gets sweet little compliments from people when we're out...not yesterday. People were probably wondering what in the world I was doing in a craft store when I cannot match my child's clothes properly..haha. I worked on making a few little bows and headbands for Grace's birthday. Super easy and much more affordable than spending $6+ on bows! Last night Grace went to bed at 7 p.m. That is SO early for us. We did a lot of yard work and enjoyed relaxing on the patio with our neighbor.

Today we've been busy running errands and decorating for Grace's first birthday party here. We are so blessed to have people here to celebrate with. I'll post pictures of the decor and the party next week.

I've been listening to sermons on Submission to God's will. The pastor speaking talked about most of us live right in the middle of God's will for our lives and our own will. This really resonated with me. I feel like God has given us this beautiful life here...what if we were moved out of our comfort zones? I got to thinking about the fact that this is the first year that I missed the anniversary of my car accident (August 8th)... I didn't associate that day with the day that could have taken my life. The pastor talked about how God gives us struggles so we lean on him. I remember 5 years ago thinking, why me, I'm so young, why are you punishing me, God? When in reality, had that not happened, had I not been struck head on, I would've gone on living this life that was a total mess when I absolutely knew better. I was brought up better than that. I guess what I'm getting at is that we need to push ourselves to listen to Gods promptings and honor Him. Alex and I are determined to live his will for our lives. First step, figure out why we're here in Texas...

Mexican Potato Salad

I knew we were having Mexican last night and I had a bag of potatoes on the counter that I didn't want going bad on my watch... so I combined a few recipes to make an incredible Mexican potato salad. Yum!

INGREDIENTS

• Salt and pepper
• 3 pounds of potatoes, scrubbed
•  1  and 1/2 cup mayonnaise
• 2 tablespoons shredded hatch peppers
• 1 lime juiced
• 1 ear of cooked corn kernels
•  salt
•  pepper
• 1 small red onion
• 2 tablespoons dijon mustard
• 1 tablespoon of hot sauce
• 1 teaspoon garlic powder
• 1 teaspoons paprika
• 1/2 teaspoon cumin

DIRECTIONS

1. STEP 1

   In a large pot, bring potatoes to a boil in salted water over high. Reduce to a simmer and cook until tender when pierced with a knife, 15 to 20 minutes. Drain and let cool completely. Peel and cut potatoes into 1 1/2-inch pieces. Cook corn and cut.

2. STEP 2

   In a large bowl, combine remaining ingredients. Add potatoes and toss to combine. Season with salt and pepper. To store, cover and refrigerate.*
   
   
   *Adapted from Matha Stewart and Que Rica Vida

The weekend

Another summer weekend has come and gone but it was a great one!

Friday was a trying day here at home. Grace isn't handling her teething very well at the moment. Between the three teeth coming in and the ants in the pantry, we had to get out of the house. We went to the gym (and Grace got a bad report because she was so cranky and steeling other kids' cups) and Target. We came home to an exhausted Grace but I set her down to vacuum the ants while she could play. She sneaks up on me, pounced on my leg (I thought she was an animal for Pete's sake!) and I somehow hit her in the mouth. Blood. And a hysterical Grace. Lovely. Grace takes a nap, wakes up, and this time I am holding Grace in one arm (because she has suddenly become terrified of the vacuum) and trying to suck up ants on the top shelf... I knocked hot sauce off the shelf... which shattered... and made hot sauce and glass go everywhere. Needless to say, I was elated to see Alex walk in the door.

After putting Grace to bed, Alex and I watched Zero Dark Thirty and enjoyed a relaxing evening together with pizza.

Saturday was just lovely. We slept in until 8:15 (which is late for Grace these days), had some coffee, and enjoyed a 3.5 mile run. It was a cool 75 degrees here with a breeze and I felt like I was high on life. It felt so good to be out with my two loves doing my number one hobby in what felt like spring weather. After the run we ate our signature breakfast sandwich and then headed to the pool. Grace is so interactive in the pool now. She truly plays in the water; she kicks, splashes, and waves at everyone around her. After the pool we got ready and the babysitter arrived. We headed into the city with the Franks to watch The Screwtape Letters. It was an incredible show! There were only two performers and it was SO well done. I am glad we read it before going because some of the stories seemed to resonate with me a little more during the performance. We even ran into friends from our ABF class. If the Screwtape Letters are in your area anytime soon, you MUST see it. So well done. After the show we picked up dinner and the Franks came to our house. The babies were a little restless but so entertaining.

Sunday we went to church, went shopping, relaxed and then had dinner at our neighbors house. The sermon at church was about redemption and finding our purpose. The pastor talked about not being shy in our faith but sharing your story with others around you. A good lesson to be heard regularly. They highlighted the fact that they need volunteers in the nursery. Alex and I have been talking about volunteering in the children's area for months.... they showed a picture of Grace on the screen while talking about volunteering. I think God was sending us a message... we need to step up.

Dinner at our neighbors was incredible. The food was delicious, the wine (was homemade) and yummy, and the company was wonderful. I truly feel like God put us in this house and so far we've had so many blessings by being surrounded by good people.

My baby turns one a week from today.... Where in the world has this year gone?! Pray for me as I prepare to transition to having a toddler.

Grace's first year photo book

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Sweet Potato Gnocchi with Summer Squash and Feta

Ingredients

• 1 pound sweet potato gnocchi, fresh or frozen
• 1/4 cup olive oil
• 3 yellow squash (about 1 1/2 pounds), cut into 3/4-inch pieces
• 3 cloves garlic, chopped
• kosher salt and black pepper
• 4 ounces Feta, crumbled (about 1 cup)
• 1/3 cup torn fresh basil leaves
• 1 cup of grape tomatoes

Directions

1. Cook the gnocchi according to the package directions; drain and return it to the pot.
2. Meanwhile, heat the oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the squash, garlic, tomatoes, and ¼ teaspoon each salt and pepper. Cook, tossing occasionally, until crisp-tender, 6 to 8 minutes.
3. Add the squash to the gnocchi and toss to combine. Serve sprinkled with the Feta and basil. Season with pepper.

*I substituted summer squash with butternut squash because I had some from a vegetable share. I diced, tossed in olive oil, and baked @400 degrees for 30 minutes and then added it to the garlic-tomato mixture. 

*Adapted from Real Simple

A Visit From Grandma & Grandpa

What a week! It went by too fast as most good times do.. A visit from Alex's parents was lovely.

We grilled out on Wednesday night after spending a couple hours at the pool. Thursday we went on a run in the morning and then went on a 13 mile bike ride. Thursday night Bill and Chris watched Grace while Alex and I went on a date. so nice to be able to talk, eat my own food without cutting it for Grace, and just enjoy the company of my sweetheart. Friday we went to Hermann Park and walked through the Japanese garden followed by a little shopping in Rice Village. We had dinner at Lupe Tortilla which is never a disappointment. :) Saturday Morning we went to San Antonio but not before stopping at Buc-cee's. It was the best rest stop I've ever seen. San Antonio was awesome. We went to the Alamo, one of the Missions, and the river walk. We stayed with friends that showed such hospitality; looking forward to visiting again in October. Sunday we headed back to Katy and had a restful night at home. Monday we went to NASA which was educational and incredible. There was so much cool stuff to see! Tuesday we took Grace to story time, explored the quaint downtown of Fulshear, and spent time at the pool. Grace is getting braver every time we go! Yesterday, Bill and Chris returned to Chicago and we all went to bed early. Here are some pictures of our adventures; such a wonderful time:

Clockwise from top left: Japanese garden @ Hermann Park, The Shales & Haines' at the Shale's house in San Antonio, Grace trying on some fur at one of the shops in San Antonio, Grace opening some birthday gifts, the San Antonio river walk

The Alamo, The church at the San Jose Mission, Alex & I at the Alamo, Grace waving to Grandma near the river walk, Grace playing with her new shopping cart from Jim and Ella. 

Dinner on Tuesday, All of us at Hermann Park, Grandma & Grandpa with Gracie at the pool, Grace and I at story time, Grandpa and Gracie playing after our run.

Grandpa feeding Grace, Grace in love with herself at a boutique store in Rice Village, Grace touching a moon rock, Grace giving a tour of NASA, the group at lunch on the river walk.

I learned a lot during our visit. I was inspired by the hospitality from friends in San Antonio and will try to recreate the little touches that made our stay such an experience next time we have visitors. I also learned about being a good guest in someone's home. I suppose one of the best things about the visit from Alex's parents was that they didn't need to be entertained. They were so helpful, without being asked, they seemed to take in the moment and just enjoy. Grace was in heaven during their stay. She enjoyed the playtime (even in the car) and embraced the love and attention from Grandma and Grandpa.

I'm finishing The Screwtape Letters before seeing the play this weekend and one of the chapters talks about how the devil distracts you with the busyness of everyday life to keep your mind off of eternity. This could not be more of a reality for me. Between feeding Grace, feeding myself, and then cleaning up after our meals, I feel like our whole day is gone. I had silence on our drive this morning along with a little worship music and just tried to mediate on how blessed we truly are... not by things but by those around us. I thought about how Margery, a good friend back home, kept encouraging me before our move, telling me, "Rheanna, God with provide, he hears your prayers." She sent me a card our second week down here with further encouragement for handling the move with grace and how I was an example to others around me (another examples of blessings- I have incredible women in my life to help me see blessings through the tears). As hard as yesterday was (saying "so long for now"), God has blessed us immensely since we have been here and continues to bless us day in and day out. The busyness of life could have distracted me from praising the Lord this afternoon, thank goodness it didn't.

We are looking forward to the next couple of days with NO plans and catching up on housework enjoying time as a little family. Now it's time to enjoy some freshly baked bread from a friend.

A weekend of projects

Woo, I am happy to have many of these projects knocked out! Feels good to have gotten so much accomplished :)

Friday night we hosted a "dinner of 8." So our Sunday school class has 40+ (that I've seen on an average Sunday, although I think there are actually 200 members) people in it, which is huge and quite intimidating for a newbie like me. To help you get to know people better in the class they have small groups, accountability groups, play-dates, girls/guys nights out, etc and dinners of 8. We went to one a few weeks ago and had great conversation and felt like we got to know people a lot better so we decided to host one. Although I'm not sure if we were all able to sit down at the same time due to the needs of our kids, we did have a great time. We are very fortunate to have found this class to help us get plugged in with people in our same life stage. One of the girls even brought over homemade vanilla. Needless to say, I am so impressed.

 Saturday and Sunday were long, exhausting work days. Alex worked on and completed the patio  (our neighbor Jared and the Franks helped us out, praiiiiise the Lord). I sanded and stained the pallet, organized Grace's closet and the pantry, swept and cleaned the garage, did laundry, and purchased a rug for the living room. Here are some pictures of the completed projects.

Sunday afternoon Alex was craving a burger (Chick-fil-a is closed on Sundays... wha wha) so we went to Whataburger. Fail. It did satisfy Alex's craving but I'm not sure why you would go there unless it was extremely desperate times. I went up to order "fresh avocado" so Grace could eat something and the cashier advised me against giving it to my baby. Say what?! No thank you.

I'm growing increasingly uncomfortable with the fact that my baby soon won't be a baby.... she will soon be a toddler. Although she will always be my baby, I received an e-mail from our old hospital giving me weekly updates about things Grace might be doing, tips, and advice, and they used the words, "your toddler." Gross! Where has this year gone?! I did read recently that while it is hard to watch your baby grow, it's even harder to watch them if their not. #blessed

Today we're getting a couple repairs done here at the house and Grace and I are meeting some neighbors at the pool :)

Tomorrow, Alex's parents are coming to visit! We are beyond excited to see familiar faces and post our adventures!

Dinners, Baseball, and Making Friends

What a week! We have been very busy eating with new friends. I have come to appreciate my new kitchen and this whole "nap" thing that Grace has been doing lately!

Friday night we had dinner with friends from our Sunday School class. The couple has two rambunctious boys and they were hilarious to watch play, quite differently than the delicate girls I'm so often around. They actually brought Grace's ball pit down stairs to play with. We had lots of laughs and conversation. I learned what a car "chip" was and about dirt bikes from one of the little boys.

Saturday morning we went on a 9 mile bike ride. It was toasty outside but we were in hot pursuit of Lorna (Grace's monkey friend pictured below) who never did turn up. Luckily, we found her on Amazon and she's being shipped our way! At night we went to City Center for dinner at one of our favorite spots, Ruggles Green. There was a live band playing music on the green; we danced under the stars and enjoyed the company of our good friends, the Franks. We sampled many yummy yogurts at Red Mango. The white peach flavor is to die for.

Sunday we went for a run before church, went to church, shopped (attempted to but Grace was not having it), and then went to dinner at a couple from our Sunday school class' home. It was lovely and the food was delish! The guacamole was so creamy: I've had dreams about it! Their little one is five, sweet, very giving, and adorable with Grace. We are blessed to have such great people in our neighborhood!

This week has been filled with dinners, pool time, a Costco trip, Grace loving the swings at the park, a bike ride, cooking, our first CFA experience, the Sugar Land Skeeters game, installing our projector, and catching up with friends back home. We are learning so much about southern hospitality and simple ways to show God's love to others through our new friends here. It's amazing how warm and loving people can be, right off the bat. Here are some pictures to sum  up our week:

My time in the word has been fruitful. Thank you to all of you who have prayed for me and my faith journey. I am currently reading the Psalms, Love and Respect, and The Screwtape Letters. God is blessing me immensely and I feel like I am growing in several areas right now. Keep praying!

Margarita recipe

There are few things that can disappointment me as much as a sour mixed margarita! I expected to come to Texas and every restaurant would have margaritas that were pleasing my palette... Not the case. Lupe Tortilla has one an incredible one but haven't been impressed by many others. Below is a picture of it... With The little carafe on the side; how can you not love it?!

Here's my recipe, hope you like it!

1 container of Simply Limade

The juice of 4 fresh limes (plus slices for garnish)

White tequila (I pour while counting to 8)

A splash of orange juice

Rim each glass with a combo of kosher salt and sugar

Mix it, shake it, pour into a festive glass, enjoy! :)

White chocolate chip oatmeal craisin cookies

INGREDIENTS

• 3 cups old-fashioned rolled oats
• 1 1/2 cup all-purpose flour
• 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
• 1 teaspoon baking powder
• 1 teaspoon baking soda
• 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
• 1/2 teaspoon coarse salt
• 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, softened
• 1 cup granulated sugar
• 1 cup packed light-brown sugar
• 2 large eggs 
• 1/2 cup of white chocolate chips
• 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
• 1 1/2 cups craisins

DIRECTIONS

1. STEP 1

   Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Stir together oats, flour, baking soda, baking powder, cinnamon, and salt in a large bowl; set aside. Put butter and sugars in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment. Mix on medium speed until pale and fluffy, about 5 minutes. Mix in eggs and vanilla. Reduce speed to low. Add oat mixture; mix until just combined. Mix in raisins and white chocolate chips.

2. STEP 2

   Using a melon baller, drop dough onto baking sheets lined with baking matts, spacing 2 inches apart. 

3. STEP 3

   Bake until golden and just set, about 14 minutes. Let cool on sheets on wire racks 5 minutes. Transfer cookies to racks using a spatula; let cool completely. Cookies can be stored in airtight containers at room temperature up to 3 days.
   *Adapted from Martha Stewart's Oatmeal Raisin cookie recipe

Cheering up

Sorry for the last depressing post! You've got to have sad days once in a while to help you appreciate the good ones. :)

My afternoon was cheered up by poolside company. What a treat! We also had our neighbors over for angel food cake and visiting. Their little ones loved Grace's playroom! Grace is going to need to learn to share though... how do I do this veteran moms and dads?!

Wednesday, I started my day with yoga. Afterward, I worked on a lot around the house (cleaning up since Grace is into absolutely everything). At night, we had a lovely picnic prior to a concert at church where Shane  & Shane played. They were so entertaining! Not only did they have spectacular voices but they were hilarious! 

Thursday, we went to story time at the library and did a little birthday shopping at mall. Look at all of Gracie's cute finds! 

Grace was so annoyed with me snapping pictures. Its so hard to get one that isn't blurry these days; she won't stop moving!

I was thinking about all of the lovely memories we've made and people that we've met here in Katy so far. Thank goodness for some wonderful friends in Chicago who helped us connect. I've had a lot of time to think and appreciate people the last few weeks. I've really dwelled on the fact that what you consider someone to be in your world (a minor friendship perhaps) may be the total opposite of what someone considers you to be in their life. I have almost uttered the words, "good friends," when telling others about a couple we have grown closer with here. I had to think about if it was acceptable to say this... I mean, we haven't known each other that long.... But we hang out a lot... We have meaningful conversations... They inspire us to want to live positively. Can we call them close friends? My conclusion is yes... You can consider someone a close friend even if they are busy people with tons of friends. I think it's something to keep in mind... You may be a huge important part of a friends life regardless of what they are to you. Looking back at some of the different places I've worked and been a part of, I could always find a "breath of fresh air," a person to light up my day... A face I would look forward to seeing when I walked in the door... Someone who is genuinely interested and you're excited to hear about whats going on with them. Friendships do get harder to maintain as you grow older and attain more responsibilities but no act of kindness goes unnoticed. I've had many heartwarming moments through texts, mail, phone calls, and FaceTime. It makes me feel grateful for just being a blip on a busy friend's radar. Makes you feel kind of important doesn't it? Spread some love, you never know which friend needs it. ❤

The search that breaks your heart

Saturday night we did had fajita night at our house. We used Rick Bayless's skillet sauce which was incredible. I did feel like I was cheating a little by using it... like I should be concocting my own skillet sauce but why on earth should I reinvent to wheel when Rick's got it down?! And boy does he, it was incredible!

We watched Identity Thief which again, why all the profanity? What happened to movies that were witty and not slapstick humor or vulgar jokes. Jim Gaffigan needs a new stand-up act. Mr. Universe can only be watched so many times. 

Sunday morning we went on a family run and then went to church. I worked on my stencil project most of the day while listening to a sermon on joy from the compass. It was so timely. I just loved how the sermon deciphered the difference between joy and happiness....happiness is an emotion where joy is rejoicing in all the blessing God has given us. I choose joy! 

I was pretty joyful all afternoon Sunday but then... a vacuum fell on me. It hurt. I've got bruises. But I still choose joy! ;)

Yesterday, Grace and I went on a run and then went to a play date with our Sunday school class. We went to the grocery store, Costco, and had lunch with Alex. Poor Grace about lost her mind after all of those errands. She was exhausted. We had a mini play date coffee break in the afternoon with Jennifer and Carolina that ended with spilled water and coffee. These babies keep us on our toes!

Last night we had Dubliner & Gouda mac n' cheese. I used Martha Stewart's recipe and made the substitutes. I highly recommend! I also did half the amount of bread on top and instead added Cheezits (like Q in Naperville does). Here's a picture:

This morning I went to look up workout classes at my gym and searched for "24 hour fitness Chicago." Wha wha...... my heart sank. I looked at the map and saw my old suburb, my neighborhood in the city and although we are getting acclimated here and our house is feeling like a home I miss the broke and corrupt state of Illinois. I miss my screened in front porch. I miss the 4 mile loop along the lakefront. I miss my familiar friend's faces. I miss Naf Naf, Heaven on Seven, Mason Sabika, and Coopers Hawk. I miss every weekend being crammed full of activities with comfortable friendships. I miss yoga pant play dates and elastic pant dinners. I miss wearing pants and not feeling like you're going to pass out because of the heat trapped in them. I miss family and seeing the interactions with Grace that make your heart melt. So this afternoon, I'll cry for my old state. Tomorrow, I'll choose joy.

Patience & Stenciling

I'm done! It took 6 days to complete but the stenciling of the dining room is accomplished! Here are picture of the process and finished product.

Tips: 

- use a level each time you lay the stencil

- go easy on my adhesive spray... Nothing is more frustrating than when it rips off paint when removing it from the wall

- if painting a whole wall, do one to two rows in a session. The stencil gets too wet with paint otherwise

- go painfully slow.. It's hard work and stinks when it doesn't line up perfectly

Salsa recipe

2 roma tomatoes

Handful of cilantro

1 tablespoon of minced garlic

A pinch of salt 

1/2 of a medium onion 

1/3 of a jalapeño (add or lessen based on how spicy you like it) 

Juice from half a lime

A pinch of salt

Add it all to the food processor on chop mode. Pulse. Enjoy! 

Restoration

What a pleasant surprise it was to go to Yoga Wednesday morning and Yoga not be flow but restorative yoga. My muscles felt so relaxed after attending this class. I may have to make this a weekly thing. The teacher's voice was so fitting for the name of the class....I seriously wanted to record her to playback and help me relax before bed.

Grace and I went on a bike ride up to the Red Box near us to rent, "This is 40." It would have actually been funny except for all of the unnecessary "f bombs." It's distracting when it's that frequent!

Thursday we went to visit a new friend who recently had a baby. The baby is absolutely adorable and tiny (you forget how small babies begin)! We brought over dinner and a little outfit for the baby. Looking back to when Grace was born, I laugh at how unstable your home actually is. You have a new human being to support after years of it just being you and your spouse. You have no idea what in the world you're doing. I was absolutely terrified that I was going to accidentally kill the baby.... I remember that panicked feeling I had after Grace was born and I knew Alex would be returning to work the following week. It's such an emotional time but full of blessings nonetheless. You truly realize how incredible friends and family are when coming to your aid, feeding you, loving you and your new little human. I think part of the reason I was so emotional was because I got a glimpse of God's love for us in having Grace....that overwhelming joy, love, and hope.

I never wanted to believe life would change after a baby but boy, does it ever. Those of you heading down that road, work on your marriage... build a strong foundation for your family. Looking back, I would be reading marriage books instead of baby books....a lot of parenting comes naturally and ask other moms and dads questions along the way. In my opinion, those baby books just scare you and can be overwhelming.

I am currently rereading Love and Respect with a girlfriend of mine. Reading it less than a year into marriage may have equipped me to recognize unnecessary fights coming on but reading it now feels is more timely. I am looking forward to taking away many lessons from this book. 

Thursday we also went to story time at the library, the children's museum, and dinner at Mi Luna in Rice Village. The museum was crowded but dinner was incredible. Looking forward to exploring that area a little more soon.

Yesterday was a productive day. Grace and I went for a run in the morning. We ran to a pond nearby and did a loop and then headed home. I started to get very cocky during my run, thinking how easy it was, how my body must have adjusted to this heat... And then, God humbled me. The last mile and a half was incredibly difficult but we did make it home. 

We went to the pool with our neighbor and her little one in the afternoon and eventually got rained out. Last night a friend invited us for dinner which was wonderful. We had great fellowship and transparent discussions. The husbands went on a dessert run and I had one of the best carrot cakes of my life. Incredible. Ooh la la dessert boutique is delicious! 

This morning we read a bible story, went to the gym, and went made a delicious breakfast complete with an egg sandwich and smoothie (our old signature breakfast). I worked a little on my stencil project and Alex caught up on some work. Looking forward to a fajita night at our house! Cheers!

Dancing in the moonlight

Saturday night we attended a free concert in "central green" at La Centerra. We packed a picnic and had snacks, listened to music, and just enjoyed. It was such a good time and perfect with the babies. The band playing was Will Makar and the Red Line. They did a lot of cover music and were perfect for this venue. My favorite part was when they band played a slow song and invited people to dance. It was so sweet to see the couples out there and to watch Alex dance with Grace.

Sunday we went to church, went on a family bike ride to get donuts and yogurt, and finished Grace's room! We have been working a lot on little things around the house and it's really coming along. Only a few projects left!

Yesterday I spent a lot of the day working on a stencil in our dining room. Boy is it time consuming! It feels good to get that arm workout though! We also had a visit from the exterminator! Fun fun! We had dinner at a new friend from church's home. It was lovely! It is truly amazing how quick people are to invite you into their home and enjoy fellowship with you. There are some pretty amazing people out there and we are blessed to have God place them in our path since we have moved here. Between a conversation about flying roaches here and a visit from the exterminator educating us on the nasty critters here in Texas I ended up having the scariest nightmare and shot up in bed in the middle of the night. Scared the life out of Alex!

I channeled the skills of my old playgroup this morning and hosted a play date here at our house. It was a little chaotic but play dates usually are. I've been blessed to meet some really sweet girls here in Texas but don't worry Illinois loves, you'll never be replaced!